Going to a ladies in for free night at Kaos adult store with a whole group of male friends (all not homosexual). There were both male and female entertainers, a pole and free goody bags. I was chosen to learn some moves on the dancing pole, at first I was embarrassed and nervous, expecting to fall flat on my face, but I actually did a decent job and the crowd was cheering. By the end of the event, the novelty wore off and seedy old men were watching me dab alcohol (that I spilt on my skirt) off while the male entertainer performed his little show. I was given a goody bag and my male friend let me have his as well. So not only did I end up with brochures, chopsticks, multiple coloured/flavoured condoms and lubricants, I also scored two vibrators and made some new friends.